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The first verse you quoted really bottom lines how invalid any of our excuses are. In this is love, that God loved us while we were still a hot mess. Any issues a person has that bring pain or conflict will never be a valid excuse to not love that person. Love covers a multitude of sin, thank God!

The problem is that we can only know what love looks like if we are in a trusting relationship with God, willing to face our own incapacity for love apart from Him.

It is helpful to know that we don't have to feel shame or condemnation when we are unable to love and in fact should reject them. We get to confess to our Father our lack of love and ask Him to show us our heart and free us to love.

Our only other option is to hide our lack of love behind some principle or value to save our pride and justify our fear driven selfishness.

Trusting God with someone you see as harmful will cost you big time but the payoff is so huge. The other option will leave you unsatisfied and paying for your pride's upkeep for eternity.

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